Intentional Changes
August 16, 2009 by Marj Wyatt
Filed under Featured, How to Make Money, Life as an Internet Entrpreneur
Recently, I glimpsed images of the skyline from my birthplace in Minnesota. The scenery from my former home town in Minneapolis was interesting to see again for it is a pretty town … during summer months. While I watched the images, I reflected on time spent there. So much has changed since moving to California last year!
Probably the most challenging thing to overcome is the advice of people who believe they have found the “right” answers. They have … for themselves. Putting distance between myself and my well-intentioned friends and colleagues who had known me in the past has proven to be a good decision. The past is a good guide and certainly something one can use to learn from but no place to dwell when endeavoring to innovate and create something new.
Along with realism, unwavering self-belief is an important aspect of being an entrepreneur. For instance, degree work in business coupled with trench-time experience qualifies me to assist my clients with their branding and marketing campaigns. In my former role as an IT executive, insights offered in those areas were rarely valued. Breaking free of those previously imagined constraints has opened the doors of possibilities for many people who have chosen to work with me.
As an entrepreneur, desire for income can never eclipse good business ethics and brutal honesty about whether or not your contributions will be an asset to any client request. In other words, know your limitations. Granted, anyone can do anything with enough time or money but it is not fair to charge someone for your training. Don’t hesitate to ask for the business if it will add skills to your repertoire but be emotionally prepared to work at a loss with regard to your traditional hourly or project rates. Remember also, when you complete the project and it delivers the expected results or better, don’t hesitate to ask for referrals and testimonials!
While perseverance is the key to success, remember that patience is a virtue and no great thing can be created instantly. You may even experience setbacks and disappointments along your way but they are easily overcome if your focus is trained on what you have rather than what you are lacking. The law of attraction works both ways.
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hello marj?
How are you? You have a nice blog here. I am still keepin up mine. Have a blessed day!
Hi Marj,
I have only read a couple of your blog posts so far, but you are spot on. Others can keep us from getting anywhere with their (I suppose…) well intentioned criticism and negativity if we allow their words to take hold in our minds and hearts. Also that same self talk can hinder us from getting anywhere as well as being hyper critical of our own abilities.
It is good to make sure we don’t charge for our training time but at the same time, some folks might let lack of training keep them from even taking chances and lack of action, fear of taking a first step is surely the downfall of many folks who aspire to work for themselves.
I think it is important to find someone who will mentor you. Someone who can show you how to improve and encourage you to take chances. Training can be paid for, just make sure your project is done well and don’t expect to be paid for your time, but rather fair market value. You might take a beating on the time involved, but the pride of doing it right and actually getting paid something will more than offset making a profit. That can come later.
I think it was you who said, sometimes a person just needs to have a success or two. With success comes, belief and then self confidence. With self confidence comes more skills, better work at a faster pace and of course in it’s season comes the monetary reward. The most important step in the whole process is to take action. Without action there is no advancement.
You have inspired me to want to take action and to look at my assets instead of my lack.
Thanks for sharing your wisdom Marj.
Pete