I have only read a couple of your blog posts so far, but you are spot on. Others can keep us from getting anywhere with their (I suppose…) well intentioned criticism and negativity if we allow their words to take hold in our minds and hearts. Also that same self talk can hinder us from getting anywhere as well as being hyper critical of our own abilities.

It is good to make sure we don’t charge for our training time but at the same time, some folks might let lack of training keep them from even taking chances and lack of action, fear of taking a first step is surely the downfall of many folks who aspire to work for themselves.

I think it is important to find someone who will mentor you. Someone who can show you how to improve and encourage you to take chances. Training can be paid for, just make sure your project is done well and don’t expect to be paid for your time, but rather fair market value. You might take a beating on the time involved, but the pride of doing it right and actually getting paid something will more than offset making a profit. That can come later.

I think it was you who said, sometimes a person just needs to have a success or two. With success comes, belief and then self confidence. With self confidence comes more skills, better work at a faster pace and of course in it’s season comes the monetary reward. The most important step in the whole process is to take action. Without action there is no advancement.

You have inspired me to want to take action and to look at my assets instead of my lack.

Thanks for sharing your wisdom Marj.
Pete

How are you? You have a nice blog here. I am still keepin up mine. Have a blessed day!